Do you feel guilty about crossdressing or being transgender?
Sadly, many of “my girls” tell me that they do.
If you feel you have to lie or sneak around to keep your feminine side hidden, I can understand the conflict.
But let’s get one thing straight – there’s nothing wrong with crossdressing or being transgender. Period.
We live in a world with very defined gender roles. Unfortunately, these roles are even more rigid for males.
It’s OK for women to express their masculinity by dressing like tomboys or by acting strong and assertive. But if a guy looks or acts feminine, he’s labeled as weird, weak, or gay.
The underlying message is that it’s OK to be masculine (even if you’re a woman), but femininity is something to be ashamed of.
What the heck!?
Society is slowing changing, but the time to reject these outdated messages is NOW.
I think Iggy Pop said it best:
“I’m not ashamed to dress like a woman because I don’t think it’s shameful to be a woman.”
There’s no shame in changing your gender to match who you are on the inside either!
I’d love to hear YOUR thoughts on this topic…
Do you struggle with guilt or is it a non-issue for you? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Leave me your comments below!
Love,
Angel Bea
Hi, I'm a 41 yr male who works heavy construction and I'm pretty in shape
ReplyDelete.. Slim/athletic. I feel so embarassed and stressed about enjoying to wear panties, camo's, and silky nighties etc. I love the feel of the materials as well as how ot hold tight to me. I first did this BC a GF said here you're my size wear it for me.. I felt sexy and I felt desired. I was in constant fear she would tell her friends. Now my new GF knows and supports me even saying that I'm tone and have a bubble butt and she thinks I'm sexy.. BTW she's attracted to women ans claims I look hotter than most girls. I'm so embarrassed though that she say how bout I dress you up and I rarely do so... Any advice?